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Trauma Therapist: When to Seek Help from a Child Expert

Witnessing a traumatic event that is frightening, dangerous, violent, or poses a threat to a child’s life or bodily integrity can impact them substantially. If this happens to a young child, their sense of safety is called into question and makes them wary of their safety in life. Traumatic experiences instigate strong emotions and physical reactions.

It is important to contact an experienced mental health professional if your child has endured a traumatic event. Your child may feel fear, terror, or helplessness which can result in severe phycological reactions. Addressing trauma or loss is critical to enhancing ongoing progression and healing. 

When Should I Contact a Child Trauma Therapist?

If you notice that your child is experiencing child traumatic stress and symptoms that last for longer than weeks, it is advised that you contact an experienced professional. Mental health counseling or therapy can help address the root of your child’s behavior and promote healing.

A therapist or behavioral specialist may be able to help you better understand your child and how to respond effectively. They can be scanned for trauma to diagnose the underlying issue. If you know that they have experienced trauma, ask whether they have had formal mental health assessments by a professional who is aware of traumatic stress. 

A Sudden and Unexpected Event

Some children are severely frightened of sudden and unexpected events. They may respond by trying to control the situation themselves in an unhealthy manner or show extreme reactions to change. In some cases, these reactions can be labeled ad oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) or intermittent explosive disorder (IED).

A Death in the Family

Sometimes childhood trauma can happen within the family. The death of a loved one is difficult for children to comprehend at a young age. Although death is a normal part of life, reactions vary according to age, knowledge, personality, and much more. This can be difficult for a child and a wide range of behavioral and emotional responses are common. This form of trauma can impact their method of coping during grief.

Divorce

Children who are raised in homes that do not contain comfortability, safety, or protection may develop unhealthy ways of coping allowing them to function day to day. For example, they may be overly sensitive to the moods of others, withhold their feelings from others, and never let them see that they are afraid, angry, or sad. These forms of trauma can greatly impact their future.

Current News Events

Negative events that happen in the community can be confusing and jarring to children. Because their developmental stages are immature, they do not understand how to cope with shootings in public areas or wars around the world for example. They must have the proper guidance and explanation from adults throughout these occurrences. If they do not, these forms of trauma can negatively impact their method of coping in the future.

How to Find a Good Trauma Therapist

Parents can find a successful trauma therapist by first speaking to their pediatrician and receiving referrals to therapists that they recommend. If you cannot speak to a pediatrician, you may also call behavioral health hospitals or community mental health centers in your area to see if they have availability or get on their waiting list if they do not.

What Do Trauma Therapists Do for Children?

Trauma therapists help by assessing children, understanding the root of the problem, then suggesting treatment options for parents. Numerous trauma treatments have been developed and are effective today. 

It is important to find a provider that understands the situation and has training in trauma-specific cases. Most providers will agree to an interview in their office or over the phone to determine if they are a good fit for your needs.